{"id":28474,"date":"2022-01-11T07:21:00","date_gmt":"2022-01-11T12:21:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carryonfriends.com\/?p=28474"},"modified":"2022-01-04T14:22:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-04T19:22:00","slug":"step-into-your-purpose","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/carryonfriends.com\/?p=28474","title":{"rendered":"Step Into Your Purpose"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Struggle with Purpose<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A lot of times we struggle with stepping into our purpose and are consumed with fear. Fear of rejection, of not being good enough or smart enough, not knowing where to start or even feeling like doing the thing we should be doing is inappropriate or not for us (hello imposter syndrome!)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even though I started Carry On Friends as a blog in 2013, I was hiding it and what I was capable of doing for the whole first year. In 2014 a shift happened. I decided something had to change because hiding behind the scenes wasn\u2019t working. By 2015, everything changed, I started seeing the results of showing up for myself boldly and authentically. Each year of growth has allowed me to bolder and more confident in who I am.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Be Good at Being You<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can only be good at being you. Don\u2019t look at what everybody else is doing. If you are going to be good at being you, you must uncover who you are by going through the process of self discovery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Self-Discovery is important because it is spending time learning about yourself, your values, unique attributes and skills you\u2019ve learned along the way. Taking some time for reflection and introspection is all part of the process to uncover yourself which can help you gain confidence in yourself and give you clues to your abilities, talents, gifts and purpose.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.carryonfriends.com\/new-year-perspectives\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.carryonfriends.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Purpose-Driven-quote-by-Chris-Williams-on-Carry-On-Friends-1024x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-28480\" width=\"512\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/carryonfriends.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Purpose-Driven-quote-by-Chris-Williams-on-Carry-On-Friends-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/carryonfriends.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Purpose-Driven-quote-by-Chris-Williams-on-Carry-On-Friends-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/carryonfriends.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Purpose-Driven-quote-by-Chris-Williams-on-Carry-On-Friends-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/carryonfriends.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Purpose-Driven-quote-by-Chris-Williams-on-Carry-On-Friends-768x768.png 768w, https:\/\/carryonfriends.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/Purpose-Driven-quote-by-Chris-Williams-on-Carry-On-Friends.png 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 512px) 100vw, 512px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:100px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Don&#8217;t Romanticize It <\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There\u2019s a myth or romanticizing of how we discover our purpose. The reality is that:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Work &#8211; whether working for a company or yourself;&nbsp;<\/li><li>Serving as a parent leader at your child\u2019s school<\/li><li>Volunteering<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Are all tools that help shape our talents, skills and abilities to help carry out our purpose. If you don\u2019t spend time learning about yourself, discovering your gifts, your purpose and your unique attributes you\u2019ll be at a disadvantage when marketing your <a href=\"http:\/\/www.carryonfriends.com\/create-authentic-compelling-personal-brand\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">personal professional brand<\/a> to others whether it\u2019s finding new clients, a new job (whether it\u2019s internally for a promotion) or other opportunities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lean into what we can learn where we are, step into your purpose and show up for yourself authentically.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Struggle with Purpose A lot of times we struggle with stepping into our purpose and are consumed with fear. 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